Wellness Wednesday: Silence is Golden

I’m a quiet individual. I only talked to others when talked too. If I’m engaged in a conversation with you or someone else, I will not stop talking. I’m a conversationalist. I hardly start conversations unless I need advice or have a question.

I had a boyfriend start a fight with me because I wasn’t talking to his friends at a party. Not only was it late at night after a hard day at work, I barely knew some of his friends. And you know Geminis are quiet around people they just met. Or at least I am. Apparently, I looked miserable. No one can tell me what they think I’m feeling or what emotion I’m experiencing. My mind races 1,000 times a second.


I’ve always had a serious look on my face.  My family told me growing up I would stare at a leaf and they would wonder why I was just staring at this leaf, with a quizzical look on my face. Why does the leaf look this way? Why is this leaf on the ground rather than on the tree branches like the rest of them? Why is this leaf green? Why do the leaves change colors?


I’m a quiet individual. I notice more than others realize. I listen more than I tak. I know the solution to the problem before the problem exist. I refuse to let the past repeat itself. I will not apologize for who I am. If you don’t like my quiet nature, if you are not comfortable with silence… move along.

I’m not looking for a relationship, I was never that girl. However, since the last two relationships asked me to be their girlfriend and used excuses to get out of the relationship with me, I’m not looking for another immature insecure boy who will break me heart.

I want a man who is mature, who does not need validation. I want a man who can communicate with me, who is happy and positive. A man who will make me a better person.

They only thing that I ask of you is that you give me a legitimate reason of why you are letting me go. I can’t better myself for my future husband if I don’t know the reason behind the break up.



As always, kisses on the peace sign fingers and love…

XO Jenn


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